I believed I was a mess. A joke. A worthless person.
I hadn’t just hit rock bottom – I’d sunk beneath it. Years of chronic anxiety finally led to a breakdown.
After losing my mum at 21, surviving life-threatening domestic violence, battling insomnia and enduring workplace bullying, by 33 I had nothing left.
Confidence, self-worth, motivation – all gone.
But I found my way back.
Piece by piece, I gathered the parts of myself I thought I’d lost forever. I meditated. I reconnected with my body. I learned to quiet the relentless noise in my head.
Then, in 2016, my hypnotherapist asked me a question that changed everything:
“What colour and shape is your anxiety?”
That moment cracked something open. It led me to NLP and what I now call my magical yellow brick road – the journey back to myself.
Now, I help other women do the same – to reconnect with their body’s wisdom, self-respect and belief.
It’s why I created Debitch Your Brain®, The M-Power Method and The 3Rs of Inner Revolution, bringing playful, high-energy transformation into the world of self-development.
And when life threw me another curveball – sepsis in 2024 – it didn’t take me out. It woke me up again. I came back stronger, and by 2025 I was performing three sell-out shows at Brighton Fringe.

For 22 years, I thrived in the corporate world – working in TV, advertising, and the music industry – wrapping up as the head of a sales team for a global music publisher. But in December 2023, I swapped it all for this world of coaching, healing, and supporting other women. And honestly? I got a great deal!
I consider myself an infinite learner – a sponge, constantly absorbing new ideas, expanding my mind, and challenging my perspectives. I love it!
Despite what your unhelpful thoughts may tell you, you get a CHOICE about what to think. It just feels too hard to change your negative thoughts as you’ve been thinking them for so damn long.
The thing is, you create your reality with your thoughts. Change your thoughts, reprogram your nervous system and watch your life evolve.
Let’s get cracking shall we?

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