Twelve years ago, before I found the world of EFT, coaching, and NLP, I didn’t feel confident or empowered.

I believed I was a mess. A joke. A worthless person.

I hadn’t just hit rock bottom – I’d sunk beneath it. Years of chronic anxiety finally led to a breakdown.

After losing my mum at 21, surviving life-threatening domestic violence, battling insomnia and enduring workplace bullying, by 33 I had nothing left.
Confidence, self-worth, motivation – all gone.

But I found my way back.

Piece by piece, I gathered the parts of myself I thought I’d lost forever. I meditated. I reconnected with my body. I learned to quiet the relentless noise in my head.

Then, in 2016, my hypnotherapist asked me a question that changed everything:
“What colour and shape is your anxiety?

That moment cracked something open. It led me to NLP and what I now call my magical yellow brick road – the journey back to myself.

Now, I help other women do the same – to reconnect with their body’s wisdom, self-respect and belief.

It’s why I created Debitch Your Brain®, The M-Power Method and The 3Rs of Inner Revolution, bringing playful, high-energy transformation into the world of self-development.

And when life threw me another curveball – sepsis in 2024 – it didn’t take me out. It woke me up again. I came back stronger, and by 2025 I was performing three sell-out shows at Brighton Fringe.

 

Turns out I really do belong on stage; just like many people have told me


'Jess’s show was creative genius. It’s rare that comedy can touch deep nerves and move and spark thought as much as laughter, but this one did so brilliantly!'

- Helen Croydon, Author & Ex-Guardian Journalist

My Qualifications

For 22 years, I thrived in the corporate world – working in TV, advertising, and the music industry – wrapping up as the head of a sales team for a global music publisher. But in December 2023, I swapped it all for this world of coaching, healing, and supporting other women. And honestly? I got a great deal!

  • 2017: Earned my first NLP qualification
  • 2018: Became a certified life coach
  • 2019: Achieved NLP Master Practitioner certification
  • 2020: Launched my coaching practice
  • 2021: Became a certified Personal Trainer
  • 2022: Studied intersectional feminism
  • 2024: Upgraded again – earning my second NLP Master Practitioner certification, becoming an EFT practitioner, and diving deep into Reiki and Sound Healing
  • 2025: continued NLP and sound healing studies. By Dec 2025 I will be an NLP Trainer and qualified in Sound for groups

I consider myself an infinite learner – a sponge, constantly absorbing new ideas, expanding my mind, and challenging my perspectives. I love it!

My Values

Some things I've done:

  • London & NYC marathons
  • Live in Sydney, London Manchester and Brighton
  • Streaked around a cricket pitch watched by 10k people
  • Written a book (it’s currently being re-written after feedback from Penguin)
  • Rebuilt my life after a nervous breakdown in 2013 and created many tools to deal with anxiety and overwhelm 
  • Learned to give fewer fucks

Some things I love:

  • Marshmallow clouds
  • Blue skies
  • Getting lost in dance, nature and fiction
  • Beautiful melodies & big basslines
  • Laughing until I until my makeup runs away
  • Learning something new that changes what’s true for me
  • Watching other women step into their power. POW!

Things I haven't done:

  • Had children. It’s not for me, never will be and I am very happy with my choice. 
  • Bought a campervan (yet)
  • Become an amazing chef (never going to happen: love eating, don’t love cooking)
  • Met Jason Momoa
  • A TEDx talk (yet)

Despite what your unhelpful thoughts may tell you, you get a CHOICE about what to think. It just feels too hard to change your negative thoughts as you’ve been thinking them for so damn long.

The thing is, you create your reality with your thoughts. Change your thoughts, reprogram your nervous system and watch your life evolve.

Let’s get cracking shall we?

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