Jess, smiling confidently at the camera, hands on hips, wearing a yellow top, stands in front of vibrant Brighton street graffiti, embodying the playful yet profound journey to self-mastery.

MENTAL FREEDOM HERE WE COME!

Debitch Your Brain™  is the ultimate 1:1 coaching programme of self-discovery to liberate you from unhelpful thinking, overwhelm and self-critical thoughts – for leaders and those aspire to lead.

 

‘I wish I’d found Jess 10 years ago! Her energy is contagious, she doesn’t let you believe small anymore. Since working with her, I have become more assertive at my job, more proactive with my career, more aware of my fabulousness, and better at balancing my life.

On the journey across ten sessions on Zoom, you will create motivation, clarity and confidence to move forward into the next chapter of your life. You’ll take action mentally and physically to shake shit up to design life you’ve been longing for. You’ll have workbooks to support your learning and access to me for voice and written coaching on Telegram for the duration of the programme. All for the investment of £2022.

Often we live an illusion of everything being fine – on the outside we have the job, the home, the hobbies blah blah. But inside, in the harrowing hollows of our minds, the truth can be far from fine. 

We taunt, over-think, doubt, shame ourselves, unable to feel the ‘fine’ that we externally present. 

Imagine what could be possible for you if inside everything was more than fine – what if things felt unbreakable, unshakable? Once we understand that the return on the investment in ourselves is LIMITLESS, our worlds begin to change.

That’s where the ‘debitching’ comes in! 

 

What to expect from Debitching...

  • Build a beautiful foundation of self-assurance
  • Develop tools to tackle anything life throws at you
  • Feel energised, positive and proud of the things you’re achieving
  • Understand how to manage the self-critic and limiting beliefs that keep you hanging
  • Supercharge your confidence so that you can unlock your true potential
  • Accelerate your progress and get clarity on your direction
  • Smash through obstacles that once had you stuck fast
  • Unpack how your thinking affects your behaviour so you can change what is not serving you
  • Learn to trust yourself and stop the relentless doubting
  • Unearth and discard old limiting beliefs
  • Uncover your patterns so you can see if they’re serving you (and create new ones if they’re not)
  • See and feel a huge shift in your relationships (especially the ‘troublesome’ ones)
  • Understand what your values and drivers are
  • Learn how to self-coach so you can keep doing this work outside of the Zoom room
  • Feel grounded and calm in your own skin, able to switch off from over-thinking
  • Have an accountability buddy who uses humour to kick your butt when required
  • Support on Telegram with a guaranteed reply within 24 hours to any thought / situation you need coaching on

The word ‘debitch’ is a very active verb which describes the art of transforming your relationship with your internal dialogue. It enables you to get out of your own damn way and start creating fabulous options, and NOT dull dead ends.

My clients signed up to the Debitch Your Brain programme because they wanted to be more assertive, to trust themselves and to figure out what they really want. They found themselves shrinking for the comfort of others. They felt like they’re stuck in a rut, in the back seat, when they wanted to own the road. They needed validation from other people (even with their senior level experience) and knew their negative internal chatter was holding them back. They also knew they were capable of so much more, and they wanted to take back control of their lives and fly in their career or business. They didn’t want to doubt themselves anymore, or feel trapped and confused by their own thoughts. They were tired of the nonsense and tired of the people-pleasing.

‘Coaching with Jess is so energising! Every session I came out feeling lighter, like I can do this! It has helped me to learn how to unpack negative thoughts, and position and reframe them to get a more positive outlook on things that were causing anxiety.

As a coach Jess will take you to places you didn’t know you needed to go to and turn a worrier into a warrior. I loved her energy, sense of humour and insights.

I can’t recommend Jess highly enough, I have looked forward to each session even though some were super tough. Somehow Jess makes it easy and fun to dig deep, while always asking the right questions at the right time. Do the DBYB programme if you want to release your real, perfect and brilliant self, so you can share yourself with those around you.

Oooo I want to feel like this too!

My clients want to feel empowered AF. They want to feel like the women they admire, and look in the mirror in the morning and shout, LET’S DO THIS! Believing 1000% that they can step up, take up space, be assertive AF, and be The Authority in their own life.
Time to take action and do something different - like investing in yourself like this lot did.

I knew that my mindset needed help and I couldn't have gone to a better coach. Now, I can be fully present in everything I do (Instead of stressing about something in my head as I'm doing it) and this has made me so much more focussed in my personal life and in my business. I now have full control over my emotions and my mind, which is invaluable for my business.

Jess helped me tame my inner critic, something which was incredibly important for me to understand and learn. Working with Jess was not only expansive and enlightening but also fun, her energy levels are truly infectious and her guidance and tuition to go inwards and find the causes and develop the solutions were always clear and precise.

I can honestly say this has been a life-changing event. She’s amazing at what she does and I would highly recommend one-to-one to anyone who isn’t happy with who they are. Coaching made me realise you can change and become the person you want to be.

It's your journey

Across the ten weeks (or six months if you choose the extended version of DBYB) you’ll have weekly or bi-weekly coaching sessions in which we delve into your mind so you can change your relationship with your thinking and hit the accelerator. The sessions are built using this curriculum guide with workbooks (to complete in your own time), but it’s down to you how you spend your time with me. It’s your journey – you pick the route. 

Read the curriculum here

You’ll come out the other end empowered with the invaluable ability to self-coach. You’ll  be able to smash aside the obstacles you built for yourself and march into your future like a badass, empowered bitch, feeling fabulous AF. No longer under the thumb of the bitch in your head. YAASSSSSSSSS!

The Debitch Your Brain signature system was created using NLP, neuroplasticity (the brain’s ability to change its structure), coaching, feminist thinking and a jolly good sense of humour. I’m a certified coach, master NLP practitioner and left my 21 year career in music, media and advertising behind in 2023. I am on a continuous learning journey to ensure my own personal and professional development is on track; I continue my NLP journey in 2024 – NLP Trainers Training, a year-long PHD-level course, studying with The Academy of Coaching & Training.

Why am I doing this?

I get asked this a lot.

I had a 22 year career in media, music and tech and I experienced many situations I didn’t have the tools or self-belief to handle myself. I was bullied by my first London boss while experiencing bereavement and threat-to-life domestic violence which eventually led to a nervous breakdown in 2013.

I do what I do because I believe that a life with less anxiety, overwhelm and self-doubt is possible for every woman. Each of us deserves to live with the confidence, clarity and mental freedom that comes from changing our relationship with our internal dialogue.

I was put on this planet to be the permission slip, to shine the light, to show there is another way to live outside of the prescribed, suffocating norms of ‘what people do’, of what ‘women SHOULD’ do.

I believe we get to write our own rules, care less about what people think and live in a way that feels authentic and meaningful. 

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