Coaching

inner critic

(noun)

[in-er krit-ik]

That hating, narrating voice in your head preventing you from feeling confident and taking action.

debitch

(a very active verb)

[dee bich]

The art of becoming aware of your destructive, negative thinking patterns, so you’re able to challenge and change them.

bitch warrior

(noun)

[bich wawr-ee-er]

Someone who refuses to believe that thoughts are real, sees options not dead-ends, takes action and designs the life they want.

Want change in your life? You're in the right place!

Your life isn’t how you imagined it. You’re not where you want to be.

You’re in a place of overwhelm and frustration, because your thoughts aren’t serving you. You desperately want clarity. 

The good news is, change is possible. 

You can feel calm, clear and confident – empowered by your own mind.  Roll up those sleeves! 

We carry excess baggage, have stacks of limiting beliefs and layers of deep programming and social conditioning in our brains because of where and how we grew up. Coaching helps you unpack and identify the root cause of these issues so that you’re able to see where you’re going, get away from the noise and feel like you’re on the right track.

Coaching is about getting to know your values and what drives you - working out why you do what you do. It helps you move away from your perceived problems and towards your chosen, curated future.

As humans we get stuck in our own little worlds with our blinkers on, and it’s not until someone holds up a mirror, or points at a different window to look through, that you realise, oh f*ck, I never saw it like that before. And thus begins the process of breaking down your unhelpful belief that you’re not good enough.

When I work with you I am utterly present, holding the space, helping you to gain insight and clarity. Coaching is a partnership, and like so many things in this world, you get what you give. So how will you show up to our sessions, and how will you show up for yourself?

This work – transformational coaching – will change your life forever. It requires commitment from you. When you buy a house, you understand you have to maintain it, keep the brickwork pointed, and the inside looking nice and homely. The same is true for coaching. This process requires an investment of your time and a willingness to be curious about new ideas.

I won’t feed you positive affirmation bullsh*t.  I’m not one of those everything-is-awesome coaches.

And the truth is that sometimes this work hurts. But the reward is freedom and clarity – if you’re willing to take the ride. The journey won’t always be comfortable – but I promise to make sure your seat belt is done up. 

There is no judgement from me, only an invitation for you to step onto the viewing platform to see your life from a different perspective. 

A city looks so different from the top of a building. But when you’re walking its busy streets it seems like another place entirely. Which view do you prefer?

My promise to you

  • A safe and confidential space
  • Focus and presence
  • An intention to serve you in the best way I can using my skills, knowledge and life experience
  • A refreshing approach to topics often taken very seriously (just because we go deep, doesn’t mean we have to be austere) 
  • A friendly kick up the arse when you need it
  • No judgement. Because otherwise I’d be a bitch, and I think it’s pretty clear that’s NOT my goal

My promise to you

  • A safe and confidential space
  • Focus and presence
  • An intention to serve you in the best way using my skills, knowledge and life experience
  • A refreshing approach to topics often taken very seriously (no stiff upper lips and avoiding what’s really going on here!)
  • A friendly kick up the arse when you need it
  • No judgement. Because otherwise I’d be a bitch, and I think it’s pretty clear that’s NOT my goal!?
Ready to debitch your brain?

Debitch Your Brain COVID edition - From chaos to calm

£497 / three session mini-programme

Need some help organising your thoughts on the current situation we're all in? Not sure a long-term coaching plan is for you? No problem. 

In this mini block of three one-on-one sessions on Zoom you’ll learn how to identify your destructive thinking patterns, understand how you're creating obstacles and how to move around them. During our time together, we will focus on the present moment, not the past or the future, to empower you to manage your mind during the coronavirus pandemic. You'll take the power away from overwhelming and anxious thoughts, and enhance your productivity. You will feel clearer and trust yourself to cope with the future. 

The Bitching Hour

£97

A one-off power hour call to help with an acute situation. This short, fast and focussed session will leave you with a deeper understanding of your perceived problem and provide a fresh set of thoughts on how to resolve the issue.

To apply for coaching, drop me a line and take the first step to reclaiming control of your life